I felt it was time to share about my lovely Daughter and her milestone reached this week.
Kaela has struggled with her reading (and her confidence) for some time. Along with moving to a new school and the class bully making Kaela her “b*tch” (this isn’t the word that was used, but this girl used to hold Kaela’s foot in the toilet and flush it, or lock her in the ‘chicken shed’ so I’m thinking she earnt that title) , a year with a ‘teacher’ who yelled all day every day didn’t help.
At the end of the year we received a form letter from the Teacher, with a ‘fill-in-the-gaps’ type thing that said
Your daughter Kaela has reached level 5 in the Home Reading Program.
Reading for Year 1 is expected to be at Level 14.
We hope you enjoyed the home reading programme.
And so the journey began/continued.
Except this year we hit pay dirt. A teacher that, in her own words, is ‘fair but firm’. A teacher that focuses strongly on positive actions, and rewards accordingly. Mind you she also is very firm. But I can’t fault her in any way.
Her classroom is beautifully organised. Every morning the desks are set up with new activities. The kids respond to her, and she takes an active interest in each one of them. In short, she looks like she wants to be there, and loves to teach.
She has taken Kaela’s situation on board. No favouritism (nor would I expect it), but empathy. And support. Kaela’s glasses, Kaela’s reading recovery twice a week. Kaela Kaela Kaela.
This week Kaela went up to Level 14 for her reading. She finally reached the level that she should have been on at the end of last year. We were so proud of her.

But the biggest milestone for me happened at assembly this week.
Not only did she receive her third class award, but she was selected from her class to speak about Education Week.
2 Kids from each class were selected, and invited up on stage to reading about their ‘love of learning’.
My painfully-embarrassed-to-read-anything-in-public daughter got up, beaming from ear to ear with pride, and proceeded to read, without any hesitation, 4 sentences on why she loved to learn.
Tears sprung to my eyes and my heart did a flip flop and surely burst a little bit. I wanted to get up and scream “Go KAELA! YAYYYYY!” – but of course I didn’t.
I went home, found a lovely scarf that I had knit stored in my gifting box, in colours just right for the Teacher.
And I wrote a note of thanks.
And Kaela gave it to her.
She wore it today.

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May 29, 2008 at 11:03 am
Bells
that’s wonderful. So fabulous for Kaela – and for you all! I am so glad to hear things are going so well!
May 29, 2008 at 11:27 am
amy
That’s a lovely story. Nearly made ME cry, and I’m not the mama here. Any chance Kaela can get that teacher every year?
May 29, 2008 at 11:41 am
nat
that is a wonderful story Donni. brought a tear to me eye it did. thank you for sharing such a beautiful story of resilience, patience, constancy and love. Yay for mum changing schools and standing up for what was not working out for your little one. Hugs
May 29, 2008 at 12:09 pm
Taueret
great work kaela!
May 29, 2008 at 12:13 pm
sue
Oh how wonderful for Kaela. I had tears in my eyes reading about her little speech. Congrats Kaela, all the hard work is definately worth it. Some kids just take more time to learn things than others, as I help out in my daughter’s class there is one little boy who really does struggle. I just give him an extra 15 minutes of my time to help him and I think the extra encouragement helps him feel more confident too. There are quite a few children doing Reading Recovery which they never had when my son was in primary school. I am sure there are children in high school who still struggle to read who never had that extra help. I am glad that Kaela has a better teacher too.
May 29, 2008 at 12:52 pm
Rose Red
Yay Kaela!! That’s so good Donni, and equally good that there are great teachers out there who really care and know how to teach – and equally great that there are lovely parents like you who do the right thing both by their kids and the teachers.
May 29, 2008 at 1:56 pm
ginger_nut
Yay Kaela –
I remember you posting about all problems with the last teacher and the glasses and everything so it is wonderful to see such great progress with a teacher who cares! I look forward to hearing about what else Kaela can accomplish this year with such great support from her home and school life (and I hope someone puts more than that bullies foot down the loo…sounds like a practical lesson needs to be learnt)
May 29, 2008 at 3:00 pm
Kate
Oh God, I’ve got tears in my eyes. YAAAAAY for Kaela and thank God for such a wonderful teacher. Not even 2 terms into the new year and she’s attained the level she struggled to reach under for a year under the excuse-for-a-teacher gorgon and now confidently reads at an assembly. What a WONDERFUL day. Thankyou for sharing and hugs to Kaela : D
May 29, 2008 at 4:19 pm
Shelley
Yay for Kaela! I’ve got watery eyes from that story. My brother’s dyslexic and I used to get bullied, so I can just remember the agonising lack of confidence similar to that you both would have endured. But to get up there, achieve L14, and read in front of the school – such a proud moment, and one I think she will remember for the rest of her life as well. And teacher’s like that – they make school worth going to.
I hope Kaela is still feeling on top of the world after assembly, and that she knows nothing can stop her now. You have every right to be a proud mom, and thank you for sharing that story. It certainly helped make my day.
May 29, 2008 at 5:20 pm
Gae Fenske
Just tell Kaela that there have always been a few teachers just like that evil one – they should not be allowed within a bull’s roar of children.
When my younger brother was a very little tacker he managed a fairly severe scald on one foot (spilt tea-cup I fink) and it was managed and dressed by our brilliant GP. Stephen was kept at home for a few days, then allowed back to school, with a note detailing the Dr’s orders: particularly NO SPORT until healed. The old witch MADE him join in all running around games. And because Stephen was really extra lucky, he had to repeat a year, and got the same old witch.
Naturally, he came home with the foot all inflamed and horrendously painful – and had to be kept home until it was nearly healed.
Well done, Kaela.
May 29, 2008 at 6:19 pm
Georgie
Oh, go Kaela! Congratulations to her and you all, what a fabulous achievement. Thanks for sharing such a great story.
May 29, 2008 at 7:03 pm
Anne P
GO KAELA!!! Indeed. And GO TEACHER too, but mostly GO KAELA!
May 29, 2008 at 7:27 pm
blueadt
Fantastic news!
It really makes a difference when they have a good teacher doesn’t it. My DD was badly bullied in a previous school & her then teacher told her to stand up to them herself & that she wouldn’t help her. My DD was eight years old. But because she was taller than the bullies (& nearly as tall as the teacher!) she deemed that my DD could handle it. She couldn’t & I moved her to another school when things got worse.
Hopefully this will give Kaela the confidence to keep going forward & progressing.
May 29, 2008 at 7:31 pm
cathy
Simply wonderful!!!
May 29, 2008 at 8:32 pm
kissmyfrog
Oh! Hooray for Kaela! I’m so happy for you both, Donni. It’s such an enormous thrill when things start to go right at school, isn’t it?
May 29, 2008 at 9:57 pm
diane
Thank you for sharing that story. Your sense of relief for both of you must be huge . But finding a great teacher is the best thing , at 52 I can still remember my 3rd grade teacher as my reading inspiration.
May 29, 2008 at 10:37 pm
Ailsa
Oh man. You made this hard bitch cry. Way to go K.
May 29, 2008 at 11:45 pm
Michelle
That is so great! And go you for rewarding a wonderful teacher!
May 30, 2008 at 1:49 am
Violet
Ahhh! Little tears pricked my eyes as I read your story. I’m so glad your little one found a teacher that was able to give her the confidence and security to reach her goals. Having been there when mine have learned to read, I know the swelling heart feeling when the light bulb goes off and it all starts clicking.
May 30, 2008 at 3:54 am
rox
Way to go Ms. K!!!! So very proud of her hard work. Yay for a wonderful teacher – and Mom & Dad too. Big hugs.
May 30, 2008 at 4:33 am
jae
I’m teary. And I’m at work. And I have a meeting in 15 minutes. I knew I should have waited to read this.
But, Kaela – you rock!! You deserve all the praise anyone and everyone can heap on you!
May 30, 2008 at 5:09 pm
Leeanne
Well done Kaela. I know how proud you both are because we’re going through the same thing. Thomas was the only one in his class to do his speech in assembly. He did really well and made no mistakes. Though he didnt get chosen to represent his school (a girl from another class did amazingly well) he was still proud of himself.
Goes to show our hard work and “nagging” them pays off.
May 30, 2008 at 8:32 pm
Helen
Isn’t it amazing what a difference a good teacher makes! Well done Kaela!!!
June 1, 2008 at 4:02 am
hand eye crafts
THAT’S what teaching is all about!!!!
June 2, 2008 at 3:38 am
Anne
Your post literally brought tears to my eyes. As a once-aspiring teacher and the sister to a teacher, I am so very glad you found one who could help your daughter; and who had enough love and intelligence to do it the right way. How wonderful, and so many congratulations to Kaela too for all her hard work.
June 2, 2008 at 4:40 am
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June 2, 2008 at 11:01 am
2paw
Dear Donni, I read this and tears came to my eyes!! What a wonderful thing for you, for Kaela and for her teacher.I am so happy for you, and so pleased that learning is a fun and exciting thing again.
June 3, 2008 at 11:58 am
claudine
I’m so very happy for you and Kaela! Thank you for sharing the story with us. We’re all so proud of you Kaela!