Golf Guilt + Knitting Guilt = Mother Guilt
May 13, 2008
On Friday night he and I went out for our 11 year anniversary. It was a quick cheap Vietnamese meal cause I was all lurgyfied with Snot, but never-the-less we went out and, as we usually do when we get some time with each other sans kiddies, we talked and talked and talked. I love the fact that 11 years on we can still talk and talk and talk to each other. We still day-dream about where we want to travel to what we want to do.
We also talked about Time Off from Kids.
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We talked about his Golf GuiltĀ Steve playing Golf every Saturday from about 12.30pm till about 6.30pm. (Yep - LONG GAME OF GOLF HUH?). It’s his favourite past-time and he just loves going, and we talked about how lucky he is to have that time to himself. It started a whole conversation about me having 2 DAYS OFF A WEEK AND HOW LUCKY I WAS.
When I explained to Steve that I DON’T have 2 DAYS OFF, I clean the house, do the laundry, do the groceries, pay bills, take up hems, de-clutter Kaela’s room AGAIN and AGAIN, etc etc etc, and that I didn’t really feel like it was quality time like his Golf, he explained that he really felt that I should take one of those days for me to do whatever I wanted to do. Like him. And Golf.
So.
Yesterday, Monday, I decided it was Knitting Day. I spent the WHOLE day wrestling with MOTHER GUILT, about not cleaning the floors, only doing a few loads of washing and NO ironing, constantly wittering to myself…
I’ll just knit for another half an hour, no - I can knit longer, it’s MY DAY OFF
And even though I spent most of the time on the couch doing just that, knitting my Francie, it was a constant tussle. I was meant to go to Spinners and Weavers, I was meant do to the laundry, and the groceries, and get my licence renewed (AND AND AND) but I just sat and knitted. ALL DAY. Don’t when I have ever done that. I wore my new slippies.

(A pressie from the Kids for Mothers Day)
I used my Bookseat to hold my pattern

(A pressie from my Sister for my Birthday)

I flipped through Love in a Lunch box
** (A pressie from my Girlfriend for my Birthday - with above excerpt)
I played with Gail’s scarf and came up with a lovely way for her to wear it.

I also opened parcel from a Ravelry destash…Have you Any Wool from Knitmommy’s Etsy shop. SO nice. Thanks to Knitting School Dropout.

So - on the whole it was a great day. Although I had to work today, and therefore didn’t keep my other part of the bargain, heh heh, so crafty, I really want to try and do it again. Maybe next Monday. And the Monday after. And the Monday after that……
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1.
nat | May 13, 2008 at 9:57 pm
Mate, I think that sounds like a great plan! Go for it Mondays! Wheeeeeeeeeeeee!
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hand eye crafts | May 13, 2008 at 10:41 pm
I, on behalf of mothers/wives everywhere, completely absolve you of any guilt. And covet the slippies.
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Georgie | May 14, 2008 at 4:13 am
Yes, yes, keep it up! I have recently given up my “george days” and miss them terribly. I also realsied I almost always spent them hooning around doing “chores” and rarely just doing something for me. Enshrine D-days in the family routine and enjoy them!
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jae | May 14, 2008 at 11:21 am
Your hubby makes a very good point! Taking time for yourself makes it easier to make time for others. You don’t build resentment up.
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Rose Red | May 14, 2008 at 11:28 am
You should SO NOT feel guilty! Or if it helps, put aside an hour to do as many chores as you can, and then spend the rest of the day knitting - how delightful! What a good husband you have!!
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Kate | May 14, 2008 at 9:21 pm
On Mother’s Day I swanned about the shopping centre on my own - H.I. took care of Til for 3 hours. I felt guilty the whole time. There were all these mothers carting their kids around with them and I thought I’d gotten the whole mother’s day thing completely screwed and I was supposed to be spending quality time with Til or something. I said as much to H.I. when I got back. He looked at me as though I was mad and said, “Don’t be bloody stupid! You spend most of the week with her already!”. Guilt resolved. Will go out again on my own next bloody weekend too!!
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mlegan | May 15, 2008 at 11:01 pm
That bookseat looks like just the ticket for knitting. Does it work well?
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2paw | June 1, 2008 at 11:58 am
Happy Anniversary!!
I am glad you had a Day. I think you should, to maintain your sanity and self.
Love the book seat!!!Gorgeous slippers!!!
Hope the snot has all gone and you are feeling well now.